Wednesday, June 3, 2009

My heart is breaking

So last week or so I found out my MIL's breast cancer is back, just in the other side. Her surgery is Wednesday. Then, today, my BIL was seen and it is confirmed that he has testicular cancer, and the mass in his stomach is most likely related. I say stomach, but really it is his abdomen and there is a good chance that it is a lymph node. They are going to do surgery to remove his testicle on Monday first, test that tissue, then focus on the abdomen. I cannot believe this type of news, and that we not only have to worry about his mom, and his brother at the same time. The timing is just eerie and a lot to take.

Poor hubs left work early, and we have been drinknig for 9.5 hours. No, it will not make the problem better, but we had some people over, very random actually. Our neighbors on both sides, hub's sister, and our niece. We all drank on the deck, ate, and had a dance party. Hey, it made us have some fun and it took our mind off of things. My heart is broken right now. I've never seen my husband so upset, and I wish I could do something more.

On another note, wtf is up with my chart. For reals, I don't even know but it just might be the last thing on my mind.

9 comments:

  1. I am so sorry about your MIL and BIL. I will keep them in my prayers.
    --flgirl79

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  2. Wow. So sorry to hear all your family news. I will be hoping for the best for both of them. As for your chart, I think you may have O'd later than FF is telling you right now. Keep temping away! Sometimes it just takes a little while to get to know you.

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  3. I am so sorry to hear that Lyse. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  4. I am so sorry Lyse. You and your family are in my prayers.

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  5. Sunshine will eventually show through the clouds....I'll be thinking of you and your family. BTW, your chart actually doesn't look to bad! Not the ideal clear shift, but there's a shift!

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  6. I have an idea what you're going through right now (stepmom and gma with ovarian cancer), and I know it really sucks. I'll keep you all in my prayers.

    I think your chart looks kinda nice, I hope it continues that way for you!
    -Joyous1106

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  7. I'm so sorry. Cancer just really sucks. I have nothing more eloquent to say than that.

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  8. I'm so sorry Lyse.. I'll be thinking of you and your family, and I hope your MIL & BIL pull through with flying colors. Keep us updated, and keep thinking positive thoughts.

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